Planning a safe wedding for a young mom who’s battling an intense form of cancer would always be tough—but this oncology ward in Arizona did it during a pandemic.
As nurses at Banner Thunderbird Medical Center in Glendale recently admired 22-year-old cancer patient Samantha Preston’s engagement ring, an incredible idea suddenly grabbed everyone’s attention.
Preston’s medical team saw how much support she received from her fiancée Angel Aguilar during her extensive treatment for late-stage osteosarcoma, a type of bone cancer. They also knew how much love Preston felt for their toddler son, Odin, and wanted to help the family.
“I said, ‘You’re coming in for a long day of transfusions on Friday. Why don’t you let us throw the wedding here at the clinic?’” said Amy Mabry, nurse practitioner at the pediatric oncology center at Banner Thunderbird Medical Center. “She kind of got a sparkle in her eye, and she said, ‘Really?’ And I said, ‘Yeah, we’ll totally figure it out for you.”
Preston’s medical team quickly turned into wedding planners. Social worker Kelley Hunt, child life specialist Courtney Smith and the pediatric oncology team worked together to plan an unforgettable ceremony in just three days.
“After getting her okay, it was time to pedal to the metal,” said Mabry. “We just wanted to make sure that as amazing as Sam is, she got to experience a special day for her, Angel, and their son Odin.”
The team received a lot of help from Smiles for Miles, a nonprofit group that helps children fighting cancer. The organization “was instrumental in helping us to get all the decorations and setting things up,” Mabry said.
An area at the hospital traditionally used as a gathering spot for families was quickly transformed into a beautiful venue for the couple to tie the knot. The team helped Preston get her makeup professionally done, and a local photographer captured every sweet moment between the family.
“They just completely went all out with the decorations, and they had it all planned where they would cover up my (IV) pole, hiding the transfusion going on. It was just so magical!” said Preston. “And I told them if they wouldn’t have done what they did, I would have just gone out for dinner after getting the papers from the courthouse.”
Smith said helping to plan the special day was an honor. “Being a part of Sam’s wedding made history for me and my team, as it’s not very often that pediatric patients—or adult patients under pediatric care, in Sam’s case—get married,” said Smith, whose team has helped to plan proms, quinceñeras, tea parties, and more. “This is a first for a wedding!”
Preston’s cancer treatment began in August 2019 at Banner Children’s at Desert in Mesa, where she spent considerable time receiving chemotherapy to treat her osteosarcoma.
She remains determined to stay upbeat in spite of her health challenges.
“I just always wanted to remember to overcome adversity with a positive attitude, because that’s what’s going to get you through it the easiest,” said Preston.
“You know, everybody has their problems, no matter what it is. Yes, I’m going through cancer, but there are other families now going through COVID. There are families who have been going through cancer or other issues for way longer than I have. And you just need to remember, always stay positive no matter what situation or obstacles you have to go through.”